Perhaps the biggest public debates of our time concern gender and sexuality. There are a lot of strong emotions on every side, and there aren’t always simple solutions. I’m certain by addressing this topic at all I’m probably going to upset some people, so let me start by apologizing for any offense I’m going to cause. I don’t hate you, and, honestly, I’m not even really going to be talking about you in particular. I don’t much believe in singling out individuals, unless they’re me. Truth be told, I’d love to buy you a drink, talk this whole mess through and see what sorts of common ground we can find, because I truly do believe there’s plenty to be found.