Fearfully and Wonderfully Made

"God gave you a special gift. You are so good with those kids." I cringed. She meant well; she was actually trying to support me, compliment me, but the comment ran through my spine and I forced an awkward smile. I did not say anything; I needed a moment to myself before I spoke to my friend again.

March is Developmental Disabilities Awareness Month. It is a great time to focus on our ministries and our purposeful inclusion of people with all abilities into the Body of Christ. It is a time to start building relationships and strengthen faith. It is time to remember how much Jesus loves His children . . . all His children.

As a member of Bethesda’s Religious Life Team, I find myself in interesting situations like the above. I realize that most people are not mean or have malicious intent. I know that usually when something inappropriate is said, it is truly out of ignorance or lack of experience. Eventually I will remind my friend that we are all fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139), that adults with disabilities are not "kids," and that my teaching experiences are basically no different than other teachers' experiences. We all have goals for our students and we all work hard to find ways to help them reach their goals.

Sharing God's Word

One of my favorite resources I use to help adults with developmental disabilities learn more about Jesus and grow their faith is The Story Bible. This book:

  • is written at a level of understanding for all ages,
  • includes discussion questions, an additional activity, and a prayer,
  • has definition words to the side, reminding teachers the importance of concrete understanding,
  • has the stories in the same order as the Bible,
  • has beautiful, realistic and adult-like illustrations, also for concrete understanding,
  • does not say "kids" or "for children" on the cover

It is wonderful to find a resource where learning with clarity is the priority. It is obvious the authors and project managers of this book took all people of all abilities into account with this design. I am so thankful I do not have to explain that, "No, Goliath is not a giant pickle!"

Additional Resources for Adults with Developmental Disabilities

If you are blessed enough to live, work, teach or know adults with developmental disabilities, Bethesda has other resources available on cph.org. The Wonderfully Made series was specifically written for you! Check out:

Bethesda also has new FREE downloadable disability awareness materials available titled Face 2 Face. The materials include sermon notes, Bible studies for all ages, chapels, litanies and more. 

Bethesda has been supporting people with disabilities for 114 years. Its mission is: To enhance the lives of people with intellectual and developmental disabilities through services that share the good news of Jesus Christ. For more information about Bethesda, visit our website or send us an email!

Learn more about Bethesda

Picture of Sandra Rice
Written by

Sandra Rice

Sandra Brese Rice is a project manager, editor, writer, curriculum writer and the Religious Resource Director at Bethesda Lutheran Communities. For the last 17 years, Sandra has had the chance to support people with disabilities with worship and growing in their faith. A former Lutheran school teacher of 13 years, Sandra has always been a storyteller, Her articles, classroom lessons, and devotions usually derive from real-life happenings, silliness, and predicaments she has faced at one time or another. A mother of two, she lives in Western New York with her husband. She is co-author of the devotional Ditch the Mainstream and author of Ethan and God, a children’s book for hospital stays and illness. Sandra enjoys date nights, exploring new places, her Life Group, and photography.

Subscribe to all CPH Blog topics (Worship, Read, Study, Teach, and Serve)