It’s time to celebrate! The Church is definitely familiar with celebrations; the Church Year, in fact, is a calendar full of days in which we thank God for all He’s done.
Since we’re so accustomed to celebrate and praise God for His gifts, we can continue this celebration and commemoration into the lives of God’s people to remind members of God’s love and care for them. Take time to thank our Lord for His love in the lives of His people! As a congregation finds milestones to celebrate in the Christian life, members build stronger relationships with one another.
Obviously, this is a big milestone in any life. The church can take this occasion to wrap the family in love and care. Provide a family devotional or a prayer blanket. Send a hot meal or gift card their way. Extend a personal invitation to the family to worship, and introduce the little one to the congregation.
The importance of this event cannot be overstated as God’s grace abounds and He claims His child as His own. The joy of welcoming a new member to God’s family is incredible! Provide a card from your Nursery Roll packet, and have all attending worshipers sign it. While the family takes photos, ask to snap one too. Post the photo in a prominent place, adding to a Baptism collage. For little ones, celebrate this event by giving a small memento for the family and child. Give a parenting devotional or a soft toy. For older individuals, offer a small gift card or a picture frame for the day. Every year, have a luncheon to celebrate the Baptisms of the past twelve months.
Families often celebrate this special day after the service, so find other times to make this milestone memorable. Provide a lunch for all the families a week or two before, and invite special guests to say a few words of congratulations (school principal, youth group leaders, DCEs, head elder). Give each confirmand a gift from the congregation. Prayer books, devotionals, banners, and bookmarks are popular ideas.
For a high school student, graduation can be a defining milestone. Recognize those who are moving on to new endeavors and vocations: work, military, family, college, and the like. Include them in a prayer during church. Hold a cookie party right after the service so individuals can congratulate them personally. Make sure they know they still have a church home, even if they’re moving away. Wrap up “survival kits” or “care packages” with Kleenex, snacks, ear buds, a personal Bible study, and other fun additions. Have a handful of members add notes to each box, complete with prayers and words of encouragement.
Weddings are full of public celebration. Keep the excitement going! Every year, recognize couples who are celebrating a “5” anniversary (fifteen, thirty, sixty-five). This could be a time for these individuals to reaffirm their promises to each other. The congregation has an opportunity to encourage these couples, and the couples give a witness to the blessing of marriage. Gifts can be provided for each couple.
This can be both an exciting and challenging time for individuals. The church can send a card to those who have recently retired, offering congratulations as well as words of encouragement. A small gift bag can include sunglasses, working gloves, and a gas card to uplift the new vocations the retired member may enjoy.
The list could go on for . . . a lifetime! Let this list be a starting point for your church to identify specific milestones for your congregation members. Thank our Lord, who is with us through every milestone, for blessing our lives with His love, presence, and forgiveness.